The new school year is already in full swing. While the first weeks may be exciting and full of fresh routines, they can also highlight challenges for families navigating co-parenting. Even after school has started, thoughtful communication and flexibility go a long way in helping kids thrive. Here are some tips to keep things running smoothly:

1. Check In on Your Parenting Agreement and School Contacts.
   Now that schedules are set, review your parenting agreement and school records to be sure both parents are receiving notices, progress reports, and teacher communications. Confirm that emergency contacts, pick-up arrangements, and after-school care reflect your current plan.
2. Keep Calendars Current.
   Mid-year changes, like new extracurricular activities, early dismissals, or rescheduled conferences are common. Using a shared calendar or app to update one another so nothing falls through the cracks is one way to make sure everyone stays in the loop.
3. Coordinate on Homework and Routines.
   Kids benefit when expectations are consistent between households. Compare notes on homework policies, screen time, and bedtime to provide stability, especially on school nights.
4. Expenses and Supplies.
   Even after the initial back-to-school shopping, there are ongoing costs: field trip fees, sports equipment, classroom supplies. Your Agreement should address most of these costs, but make sure you know how you’ll handle these throughout the year to avoid last-minute disagreements.
5. Communicate with the School Together.
   If a teacher raises a concern or schedules a meeting generally speaking it would be wise and helpful to let your co-parent know promptly. Attending conferences together (or coordinating notes) shows your children that you’re a united front in their education.
6. Stay Flexible and Child-Focused.
   As the school year progresses, your child’s needs or activities may change. Being willing to adjust schedules or share responsibilities sends a powerful message of support.

Even though the school year is already underway, it’s never too late to strengthen your co-parenting plan. By staying organized, communicating clearly, and keeping your children’s best interests at heart, you can help them feel secure and supported all year long.

If you’re having difficulty coordinating with your co-parent or need assistance modifying your parenting agreement to reflect changing needs, Berner Law & Mediation Group can help. Give us a call at 201-836-0777 to discuss how we can support your family.